Roger was not a birder, but for the 46 years of our marriage, he drove me to countless birding spots. He also drove me to the airport so I could fly off on various birding adventures. We enjoyed sherry from Rutherglen (or recently Wahgunyah) so several times each year, after we'd collected our bulk sherry, Rog drove me around the birding spots of Rutherglen and nearby Chiltern.
As Roger's health deteriorated, I did more and more trips alone. Four of my five trips to Christmas Island were done without Rog. He didn't accompany me to the Torres Strait or to the Coral Sea. I felt guilty leaving him and decided that my recent Christmas Island trip would be my last.
So I was home alone when he made his last trip to hospital. He'd been there four nights and was scheduled to come home on Friday. I rang to arrange picking him up and the doctor said that Rog wasn't quite right and they'd keep him in one more night. That night he died.
I should thank all my dear family and friends for their wonderful support in recent days and particular mention must be made of my favourite (and only) brother, Richard.
Life will never be the same again.
Roger as I will remember him, photo by Michael Seyfort |
Christmas Day, 2013 when Rog took me to Werribee |
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